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I am Kingston, and this is my project page.

This site is to document my journey through projects to help individuals and small business owners with a couple things that could make a difference.

I do this via mini projects. I also write, and I recently released my eBook ( Get To Know Your Backyard Opportunity), based on the lessons from my 21-Day project here in Austin, TX.

This book is aimed at highlighting the initiative we can all take to gather valuable skills in writing, communication, and interacting with people through an interview project in our local communities. The benefits could be life-changing.

Update Note: In the meantime, you can also pick up a free copy of my released mini-guide: Start With A Story: A Mini Guide On Opening Your Book With A Tale.

And also check out my latest startup in NYC, Kilimanjaro.

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Monday, June 22, 2015

Another Sample Out Of The Book

What Do You Have?
Do what you can, with what you have, where you are — Theodore Roosevelt
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Before I get started on this topic, let me first share a quick story. It’s the story of a man and his wife, Mel and Patricia. In 1978, Mel and Patricia both found themselves unemployed after leaving their jobs, funnily on the same day. They needed to make ends meet. They worked a number of freelance gigs but that didn’t help much.
They decided to start a clothing store, but had little money. Seeking out a loan, they were turned down. Undaunted, they got a business going by selling at flea markets and later moved to a makeshift storefront. Through creative means, they made progress.

At this point, let me share the next bit through quote:

They wanted to create a catalog. But they couldn’t afford the glossy, thick, bound ones their competition had. So, Mel wrote his own. They couldn’t afford photos. So, Patricia drew pictures of their clothes. They stapled, addressed, and mailed them all themselves.

They couldn’t even afford shelves for their store, so they used wooden fruit crates Mel found in the garbage outside a market.”

They went on and on, making do with what they had, which was not that much.
These two went on to start Banana Republic, a clothing and accessories retailer, which they later sold to the Gap in 1983. You probably know the company and it’s size, but their genesis is worth paying attention to.

How did they do it? They used what they had, and applied the old classic proverb: “Go with what you’ve got.” — Nathan Kontny.

Note: This story was written on the blog Signal vs Noise by Nathan Kontny, CEO of Highrise, a contact management software company. The full story is in the book Wild Company, written by Mel and Patricia Ziegler.

Why do I share this? We all have more than we know. So, starting a local interview project, what do you have? Not much, some might say. The project is definitely to interact with others, and collect stories, and document them. Yet to document them, you must have a form of publication. A place where you can collect your experiences and point people to follow your journey.

This is where a blog comes in. A place where you can begin to take small steps in writing and sharing the stories you are collecting. It may not be perfect at first, but that’s what you’ve got. Let’s go with that.

How do I start a blog, you may ask? In a section below, I share a few quick tips on how to set up a blog, but you can also get on YouTube and type in that question, and countless videos will come up to show you the way. Also, starting a blog is free.
Let me list some of the things at your disposal right now.
  1. Your humanity — The fact of being alive means more than you know. To the living, there’s hope.

  2. Desire — Your will to give this a shot

  3. Time — A couple hours a day is all

  4. A local community — The neighborhood is not apart from you. You are an integral part of it, and that means you can contribute

  5. Gifts and talents — You special abilities need space and pressure ( a challenge) to grow

  6. Online tools — A free blog, a free facebook account, a free twitter account, and more. This was not the case 15–20 years ago. Established media controlled all of this. This could be your soapbox.

  7. Freedom to create — no one on the face of the earth will stand in your way to create a personal project that makes a meaningful contribution to your local community while making you a better person.
So there you have it. Let’s go with that.




Monday, June 15, 2015

How To Turn Your Project Into A Book


A Mini Guide

Hi everyone, 

In addition to the main book, I have added a short guide to help folks who will later try to turn their project into a book. These pointers from my experience of how to do that.

Yet speaking of turning experiences into actionable reading material, I believe the challenge of doing that, packaging it all for someone else, is a great experience everyone should try at least once.

Here's a sample out of that guide.  

 






Introduction

Okay, let’s get straight to the point. You are done with your project, or are thinking of starting one. Projects abound and for different purposes. Every project is with a defined goal and time frame. Whatever the purpose, save for a few classified exceptions, the lessons of every project should not stay with the individual or group who undertook the gig. Out there are folks who will find the lessons useful, and the story should get to them. Someone’s whole life could be turned around with a single line of counsel from a project. So share the juice.


Personally, I love projects for their ‘seasonal’ nature — you start them, create something out of it (value), and then sit back and consider what the next one will be. That opportunity it provides to finish and take a breather is crucial, and I value it greatly. 

Why? Even God himself rested a bit after His work, and also designed days to have nights when we all turn in for a rest and wake to a new day. Projects are like days — we finish them, rest up, and wake up to a new or related one, with a renewed energy and with time taken to collect the lessons of the past one and apply them to the upcoming one. I am not one for the forever project — without an end, draining you of all creativity, and leaving no room for reflection.





My Story


So in this guide, I share the lesson I came away with as I sat to package the contents of my personal project, a 21-day local interview project of small business owners in my local community of Austin, Texas.

Towards the end of last year, I was in the middle of a difficult time, working a job I didn’t like. It took a toll on me, and made me think long and hard about how to create a change. I sat down and collected my thoughts on what I liked, loved, and could do, and put it all together. Out of this gathering, I created a 21-Day project of venturing out there to see how I could be useful to small business owners in my community.

After a few considerations, I decided to simply have conversations with them. Initially, I was hoping it could turn into some sort of side gig where I will be able to solve a few problems for small business owners for a fee, and possibly grow from there. But after a few considerations, I decided to hear their stories instead, sort of a long term thinking approach to create relationships instead of a one and done deal, or a touch and go thing.

This led a to a number of interviews with some of the finest small businesses in the city of Austin, Texas. Also, I came away with and gained greater insight into some essential skills in blogging, writing, communication skills, and dealing with people in general.

After the project, I realized what a useful project it is to challenge myself and step into the unknown, while using my skills. In that spirit, I decided to share it. Why? This happened in my local community, and realizing there are local communities everywhere, and so the opportunity for others to do something similar is all over, I decided to package it all into an actionable guide/book that shares my story and teaches at the same time.





Recognizing Value


This is when I started packaging my project into a book, or turned it into a book. And having gone through the process, I know projects and abound with their unique lessons. But for lack of packaging or an inability to turn them into a single source product, their lessons vanish or end up staying with only those who were involved in the project or the single individual who did it. There’s a way to overcome that.

First thing to think about is this: The earth is full of value, or things that are useful. Whatever good thing that you set out to do, it always leads you to take on challenges, and in taking on challenges, you figure out how to do something that probably has never been done, been done by a few people, or has never been done the way you did it, or intend to do it. That’s value.
So how you see something, and how you do it, how it helps you solve a problem, and how well you solve it are all unique forms of value. Value in the end is perspective.



How Do You Eat An Elephant?


I know, I know, the value conversion process is not always easy. Questions like “where do I start?”, “What do I say?”, “How do I know I have lessons?”, “How do I arrange it all?”, “How I do I know it’s even useful to someone else?”, and others can be stop you entirely from even attempting. But take heart, even an elephant can be eaten, entirely, and that’s what book-writing can be sometimes, a giant amorphous task.

But like all things, they are never as bad as they first seem. With thought, planning, and with a one thing at a time approach, you’ll see it coming together. Do the first thing, the second, the third, the fourth, the fifth, and then the sixth, and you’ll see your courage growing to match the task. And with a rise in courage, an elephant could soon become a fly. But you have to start first.

For example, let’s say you are done with your project, and want to package it all, and you sit down to start. You could start with the end in mind: The book. Okay with that, let’s start with the first thing you did to work on your project, write that down. How did you end it, or what did you achieve? Write it down. What happened and what did you learn? Write those down, too.

With those 3 you have the basic pieces of any journey: A beginning, what happened along the journey, and how you got to your destination. Same way with a book — An introduction, a body, and conclusion. This is the same 3 things in life itself — birth, life’s work, and value created. The great 3.

Now, with this start, the elephant is now laid on a table, the butchers table, and ready to be sliced into various pieces. These very pieces are what we are going to eat one bite at a time to finish this elephant and give birth to the book. Now, we have perspective, right? Good.



As the saying goes, “Nothing in life is to be feared, it is only to be understood. Now is the time to understand more, so that we may fear less.” — Marie Curie.

Now, what’s a book, really? Okay, a book is a written material that contains chapters that express thoughts on different things or recounts an experience, fiction or non-fiction. Now, what are chapters? You probably know chapters are most simply one, two, or three short essays that breakdown an idea. So they are short essays, right? Okay, what, then, are essays if not short 3, 4, 5, or 6 paragraphs that make a point or flesh out an idea? And on and on, till you realize that it all starts with a single letter, an a, b, c…

This is what writing is, at heart. A few letters become a word; words are strung together to make single statement. A group of words become a paragraph expressing more on an idea. Like this one you are reading. And then paragraphs become essays, and then put together into chapters. The book is on the way.



How do you build a skyscraper, if not a brick at a time? Got it, right?
(Note: This is not to belittle the art of writing, but I write it with the understanding that anyone who has finished a worthwhile project or thinking of starting one has a decent writing ability, or a fair understanding of what makes up a book.)





Nothing To The Grave


Yet, some may to me, “Nah, Kingston, I can’t write. I don’t even like it. It’s too difficult.” Or, “I don’t think I have the patience nor the time.” Or, “I cant sit and comb my mind to bring up value or lessons, nor document my journey while my project is ongoing, if I were to start one.” Still, “I am just a verbal guy, I am good with saying it, or just speaking.” Okay, okay. What I say to you is this: Does that mean the value of your project dies with you, or your lessons go to the grave?

No. Have you seen those books that are written by the author and someone else? No, not the one that both authors wrote together, like co-writers. But the one that says, By Mary Beth with John Grisham — meaning Mary Beth worked with or hired John Grisham to put the whole thing into written words. Yeah, that one. There you go: There’s almost a way around the mountain, and the value of your project should live on.)






What Do I Get?


Okay, now let’s put the carrot ahead of us. Let’s flesh out why it’s even beneficial to turn your project into a book. What’s the benefit of a book?



For The Store


One, a book is your own personal way of storing your story. You did something worthwhile, that you enjoyed, and challenged you. That must be saved. If for nothing at all, for review and a way to measure your progress. Review? Yeah, how can you build on something that’s not clear? It’s difficult if the only place it is stored is in your mind. A book makes things clear and puts it in a ‘safe’ for later.

Also, for personal reasons, it’s good for that nostalgic feeling we all have when we look through our personal journal or diaries after a few years and realize how far we have come or have grown. That look-back often leaves most people with tears, and surely that good smile and head-shake that says how thankful we are for what we did, went through, what we overcame, or what we learned. Whatever is not recorded is almost surely lost.

Sure, a book is not a diary, but it’s a way not only to share with others, but the day may come when you may sit and pick up your own book a few years later and see what you wrote. Also, if your book is published and distributed, there’s no way it will be lost — even if a storm comes through your town, pulls up trees, washes away homes, takes people’s belongings with it, and damages your one and only personal manuscript or laptop that has your book file.





Give To Others


It’s usually $3.97, $5.99, or $12.00, the price of a book. But when you pick up a good book, more often than not, the value you get out of the book far outweighs what you pay for it. That’s if your see the value and can apply it someway in your own life. Critically looking at the tradeoff, you are actually giving to readers. What may have taken you more time and money to make, go through, and learn, you give away at a fraction of the cost, if you strive to load with value in your writing so it’s a blessing to your reader. And Giving far outweighs receiving.





Your Book Will Go Where You Cannot


Okay, let’s talk a little bit about who we are as human beings and our situation. We all have have limited resources and ability. We cannot be everywhere at the same time, and do not have unlimited ability.

Yes, we all have something to say, but have limited hours in a day, and can only speak for so long.

This is where a book comes in — It can speak and go where you cannot, it takes over and carries your message when your limits come into play. This is exactly what I talk about in the book itself, when I talk about Warren Buffett’s recent article in the Wall Street Journal.





Connect


Warren Buffet once picked up a book written by Benjamin Graham. Warren loved the ideas in the book so much that when he wanted to go to graduate school he chose Columbia University after learning that Benjamin Graham was a professor there.

This ultimately led to a mentor-ship and friendship that Warren Buffet credits much of his understanding of value investing. What does all of this mean, the principles of value investing in a book is what has contributed to the making of one of the smartest investors on earth.

I’m not saying that’s what’s going to happen to you, but there’s a chance a book you write will connect you to some important people that could help you and you them.



Opens Doors


Yes, you are writing your book to share your knowledge and discoveries with the world. But you know what? The book being out there is actually a living and breathing resume, or portfolio. And since one of the constants in life are problems, there is never a lack of people looking for problem solvers. But to find a problem solver, there’s a “get to know” process, a time to find the right person. This is what we all know as an interview.

What’s fear, doubt, and uncertainty’s great nemesis? Knowledge. While an interview may be a good way to present your abilities, it’s too strict and formal a process that may not reveal much about who you really are. Neither can a written resume, which has space for only a few things, and often is only one page.

Folks looking to hire are above all interested in your thinking process, how you approach problems, how you present things, and your communication skills. And writing a book on your project shows all that without you having to say a word. It’s all in there in the book.

A diligent recruiter will take a few days, and quietly go through your book and find out what you really know about the topic, how you approach problem solving, and how you communicate in teaching through words.
So in that case, while you are asleep, your book is talking.




How?


Yet how do you turn yours into a book or guide that others can pick up and learn from? Books are containers, and are a great single location source of information.
Also, projects have stories in them, besides just technical how-tos. How? Every project that involves people definitely has a story. We are all walking stories, and whatever we set out to accomplish automatically sets a story in motion.
A book is simply a gathering of that content into a single manuscript.





Two Ways To Gather Project Content



  1. During the project: Take daily notes/blog posts while the project is ongoing.
  2. After the project: Write all about it in after the project. This can be done through a writing project of 14 days, 21 days, or 30 days after the project is done. This is what I call the pour down.

Okay, below are somethings I have found useful in turning my project into a book. Though they are my personal approach, I’m sure a couple or more do apply to many others. Please take what works for you.



Start With The Pour


Whether you took notes/documented your project during the project or when the project is over,I go through a time when I ‘pour’ everything out on the paper. Sometimes I physically use a pen and paper, and other times I type.

So in the same way, at this stage, just pour your thoughts on to a page. Don’t even think about editing, just pour out. Don’t let perfectionism get in the way. There’s a a reason we say “ I will improve upon it,” but you can’t improve upon nothing. So get something onto the paper. Write with your pen, pencil, or simply punch the keys.

Afterwards you can correct it all, but now just unload. Don’t even think about the final reader. You have a vague idea in your head, and just work with that. All things evolve, and so are books, they evolve, and as you work on it, you’ll come up with ways to add to it.



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Monday, June 8, 2015

What The Book Contains


Hi everybody, 

A quick share of the table of contents for the upcoming book. Thoughts & feedback welcome.

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Table Of Contents



Notices


Swords In Their Sheath, Please


About Me & Why


Acknowledgements





Chapter 1: Intro



  1. I’ve Got To Find A Way!
    The story behind my start

  2. Early Adjustment
    A key change that set me free

  3. The List
    Who I talked to?



Chapter 2: Why This?



  1. Who Is This For?
    Anyone who lives in a community

  2. Benefits
    It's more than a buck

  3. Doable?
    Are you up for this?

  4. Mini Camp?
    For your focus



Chapter 3: Go


  1. Getting Started
    A a phone, binder, and microphones

  2. Timing & Tools
    Things conspire for good

  3. Why The Local Shop?
    Approach breakdown & what happens. 
     
  4. Walking Into The Unknown
    Creating the foreign at home



Chapter 4: Platform



  1. A Platform
    Start A Blog

  2. Steps To Set Up A Blog
    If you need it

  3. Going With What You've Got
    Banana Republic & Crate and Barrel

  4. Why Write?
    What Marco Polo, Warren Buffet & President Barack Obama have in common



Chapter 5: The First & The Mind



  1. Setting The First One
    My Stop At Oh Boy!Print Shop

  2. Friends In Waiting = Strangers & A First Meeting
    Strike conversations with others

  3. Why Prospecting Is A Skill
    Mastering the unknown is value

  4. Win-Win
    Is it a fair trade?



Chapter 6: Takeaways


  1. What Did You Learn, son?
    Other lessons

  2. Can You Chat?
    How to do interviews

  3. What I Learned From Each Owner
  4. Will You Go To Their Funeral?



Chapter 7: Connections & Writing

  1. Spurring Community
    Connecting business owners in your community

  2. Daily Logs, Some
    What I wrote everyday during the project

  3. Wrap Up
    Final thoughts



Extra, Extra, Read All About It!


  1. What’s Your Lowest Hanging Fruit?
    What's getting in your way!

  2. Tools
    The make-shift tools I used

  3. Project Done = A Product Ready?
    Any packaged value is a product

  4. Resources: Book-Writing & Add-on Products
    What I used to put all of this together & other helps



Credits &Conclusion:



  1. Why Walk Alone?
    My friends at work

  2. Going Forward!
    What to expect from me: updates & editions

You will get nothing useless from me. Be assured.

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